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In 54 Bengal Villages, Girls Kick Abuse & Violence to the Kerb Using Sports

In 54 Bengal Villages, Girls Kick Abuse & Violence to the Kerb Using Sports

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In 2016, Shib Shankar, a social entrepreneur from Kolkata, was working with an NGO in Bihar in the space of rural development. 

“I was involved in educating people well-nigh health in Gaya district of Bihar, and Kota district of Uttar Pradesh through campaigns, disseminating information that would help them,” he says. 

This was his introduction to the rampant violence versus women in Bihar’s villages. In a state that ranks second pan-India in cases of domestic violence, the women that Shib worked with had little agency. 

He recalls a particular incident that left him shaken, while he was using mobile phones to discuss health topics with women in Gaya district. 

The NGO office received a undeniability informing them that one of the women learning from this programme was tamed mercilessly by her husband, who unsupportable that she was speaking to flipside man on the phone. He write-up her for long unbearable that the neighbours had to intervene, Shib recalls.

Girls at Shreeja are trained in holistic development, here they sit in the matriculation are learn lessons and academics
Girls at Shreeja are trained in holistic development, Picture credits: Shib Shankar

“To me, that was horrifying news,” he says, subtracting that his colleagues, too, had seen many such cases of unrest and turmoil.  

This made the 63-year-old wonder what support systems these women had in place. Could towers a polity where young girls met and unfluctuating equip them to speak up versus such social evils as they grew older? 

For Shib, a good way to give this idea some shape was through sports, which could not only bring the girls together, but moreover portray their strength and zeal to pick up a field that women don’t foray into too often. “I wanted to build a women’s football team,” he tells The Better India

In 2017, this thought would take shape in the form of Shreeja India, a Kolkata-based NGO that works as a sports-based, out-of-school learning facility for children belonging to tribal communities. Under its purview, there are many activities and learning opportunities. 

‘Girls playing football was unheard of’

In his quest to start this venture, Shib was joined by his brother Hari Shankar Dasgupta. The two were filled with a zeal to help girls from villages of Keledihi, Jhikra, Manik Dihi, Badhagachi and increasingly to stand up for themselves. 

Over time, the organisation went from being only a football coaching centre to one that was moreover academics-oriented. This, he says, was at the dictate of the parents of 50-odd girls, who were all keen on taking up the sport. “Their parents asked that, withal with the football, Shreeja should start an out-of-school wonk coaching centre. So that’s what we did,” he says.   

Shreeja India's football program sees girls playing the sport together
Shreeja India’s football program sees girls playing the sport together, Picture credits: Shib Shankar

Today, Shreeja is that unscratched space that Shib was looking to create. Girls from 54 villages get to equip themselves with skills brought by their interactions with each other, skills they learn, their progress at sports, and gains in academics. 

Having all these activities under one roof is beneficial, says Hari Shankar. “The physical strength and conviction uninventive on the football ground are reflected during their out-of-school learning and enhance their wonk performance.” 

He adds that the bond created on the field moreover equips the girls to fight social evils like early marriage, abuse, trafficking, and violence versus women.

Sonali Soren has been part of the football coaching since she was ten years old. She says it all began when she saw boys in her village playing the game and was intrigued to join in. 

“In our village, girls playing football is unheard of. Since I did not know of many girls who played the sport, I would practise with the boys. But when I joined Shreeja, it all changed,” she says.  

She moreover notes that the NGO takes superintendency of all their supplies and nutrition requirements as well. 

To add to football and academics, there is moreover a focus on the holistic minutiae of the girls. For instance, they are given computer classes and learn well-nigh variegated topics on the smart TVs on campus.  

“We moreover do play therapy, wherein a trained play therapist helps the children explore their emotions and deal with unresolved trauma,” says Shib. 

Along with this, social sensation programmes write issues such as child marriage, trafficking, menstrual and sexual health, etc., and help render meaningful information and resources to the girls. 

Girls are given nutritious meals to build their BMI for playing the sport,
Girls are given nutritious meals to build their BMI for playing the sport, Picture credits: Shib Shankar

“These programmes sensitise them and requite them knowledge as they often lack towardly guidance in these matters,” he adds. 

The trundling of good 

The NGO moreover runs the Nutri-Homes project, wherein they provide 70 households from 15 wrong-side-up villages in Rajnagar, Birbhum with fruits, vegetables, and training to start their own kitchen gardens.

The idea at Shreeja is to start a trundling of good. Thus, girls who are trained and well-spoken their higher secondary workbench exams are remoter encouraged to train the next batches. This is part of Project Vidushee, launched in August 2020. 

As Shib explains, Project Vidushee focuses on the foundational learning of children from tribal communities. 

It seeks to instil the habit of regularly peekaboo school in first-generation learners, who are primarily weather-beaten five to 10. “This project targets both boys and girls, as Shreeja believes all genders need to be ratherish informed,” he adds. 

Currently, Shib says, there are 10 Vidushee teachers and 143 children under the programme.  

We spoke to one of them, Neha Mardi, who has been associated with Shreeja since Matriculation 10 and is now a teacher under Project Vidushee. 

Recounting her own days as a student at Shreeja, she says, “I interacted with so many other girls who all came from variegated villages, and this helped me grow while I studied and played with them.” 

She adds that withal with her studies, she moreover learnt a lot well-nigh culture and values. When she gave her higher secondary boards, Neha made her village proud by scoring 92 per cent.  

A lasting impact, on and off the field 

Shreeja India’s Beyond Football programme has been running in Birbhum and Purba Bardhaman districts of West Bengal for the last five years and has helped 300 girls play football, says Shib. 

However, challenges have been plenty for the brothers, given that timeworn surcharge and notions are embedded tightly in the communities they work with. 

Team spirit is a big focus at Shreeja India
Team spirit is a big focus at Shreeja India, Picture credits: Shib Shankar

“The girls live within social systems where parents, siblings, and polity members are not supportive of their education,” says Shib. “These harsh conditions gravity them to believe that they are capable of nothing increasingly than the life they are once leading.”

Changing this notion has been a challenge. 

For now, they’re on the way to challenging these notions, he adds. Withal with this, they are looking to infuse the football programme with knowledge workshops, art, dance, drama, one-on-one guidance, and mentoring.

“These enrichment programmes will move the girls vastitude the ordinary behaviours into the realms of zippy learning,” says Shib. 

He believes that Shreeja will soon be a place where discussion and dialogue will take place, not just well-nigh football and academics, but moreover well-nigh polity concerns.  

“Football integrated with academics can be a powerful vehicle for empowering women and catalysing social change,” he opines. 

Edited by Divya Sethu

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